First Steps

I found a good article on how to catch husbands who are having virtual affairs.  It might not all apply and it's not enough, but it's a start.  Alot of these tips are things I notice were true about my own husband.

http://www.ehow.com/how_4879609_catch-spouse-cheating-online.html

Harassment

She constantly posts about me now. It's like internet harassment, like you read stories about people killing themselves over.  If it weren't for my faith, I don't know how I could get through this.

I have been financially abused by her, through my husband, and now I'm being publicly mocked and tormented.  She's even selling recordings of the calls I made to her!  I did NOT give her permission to record my calls!  I left another message for my lawyer about it but I haven't heard back yet.

This has been a nightmare.  I just wish it would all go away.

I have have people writing me from all over and telling me their stories and showing their support.  It's been a great comfort.  Some people have asked me to help them with their problems, so my original mission in this is going well.

I have had women come to me to say how their husbands fell under the spells of one Mistress Sindy, Mistress Kiara, and a woman calling herself Jappy Princess.  I hope these women will reconsider their ways.  This is now way of making a living.

I have contacted some of the women already and hope it will go as well as it did with The Duchess.

If you are a wife who has found out her husband is spending all your money on phone sex and especially those who do what they claim is "fantasy blackmail" but they still take all your husband's money, please write me.  Together, we might be able to do something.  Maybe a class action suit or something, especially if anyone else's husband has being ruined by Mistress Amberly.

Also, please let me know how you found out and we can put that information on the site so other poor wives can catch their husbands before it's too late and they are going bankrupt like me.

Spoke To Amberly

Well, I spoke to Amberly the other day.  It didn't go at all well.  She is a childish, malicious, sick minded person who enjoys being the way she is.  She must have been abused as a child to behave the way she does.  It makes no sense.  She will do anything and say anything for money and she has no shame.  How do you speak reasonably to someone like that?

She tried to tell me my husband is still calling her and paying her.  That could be anyone posting with his name on her "slave board."  Even if it's true, I don't see what she's bragging about, taking advantage of a sick man.

Update on the Evil

I have tried being nice, I have tried offering to settle out of court, I have tried threatening.. This woman thinks it's a game.  She's used my voice and my name on her recordings for sale.  This is sher insanity.

In other news, at least I'm having success elsewhere.. it's true I am on a mission to save my husband from the clutches of his addiction and the evil of this woman, but I am here for other women as well.

There was a woman who called herself The Duchess who has been understanding and respectful as I spoke to her about how a good woman was facing financial hardship because of her husband's addiction to phone sex.

The Duchess was understanding and respectful, especiually when the wife said she'd cut up her husband's credit card.

Some women could learn from The Duchess.

Evil, Simply Evil

This woman is not using recordings of when I called her.  Not only did she not get my permission to use recordings of me, she is going to burn for the things she does.

She has people who write on her website and encourage her to be evil.  I hope they will all be happy when she is sued and goes to jail for extortion.  Then they will have no more Amberly to play with.  She will realize soon enough they are not her friends when she is in jail and where will they be then?  Nowhere is where.

Out of Control

This woman is insane.  She thinks she has documents my husband signed saying he agrees to be blackmailed.  What kind of legal contract could possibly allow blackmail?  It's insane!

If that weren't proof enough, she also has no respect for her own soul and says horrible blasphemous things that I wouldn't dare repeat.  I truly believe she will burn in hell for what she's doing, and I'm sorry to say, at this point, I'm not feeling very much sympathy for her about it.

She has been taunting me and behaving like a child, resorting to name calling and ugly comments and the most unbelievable part is that she has followers who think this is all a big joke.  I hope for their sake that they don't really think this is an acceptable way to behave.  This woman is a demon.

I Need A Good Lawyer

I looked through my husband's computer and gotten links to sites he visits.  There was one with a members area he'd paid to have access to, and comparing the number on the site to his cell phone, I was able to establish beyond a doubt that this was one of the women he's been throwing our money at.

Her website is disgusting.  She brags about humiliating men and blackmailing them.  She thinks it's funny when men go bankrupt over her and families have to lose everything.

She has her yahoo IM listed on her website, but I got no response when I tried to IM her.. so I left a message for her on her twitter account and lo and behold, what does she do?  She thinks it's funny and actually taunts me, telling me my husband is a faggot and all sorts of nonsense.

My husband is not gay.  He is a good, Christian man with a sickness.  I don't have any problem with gays.  I think what they do is between them and god, but my husband is not gay.  And we have a beautiful family to prove it.

I had tried asking nicely and telling her we were in debt and to please leave my husband alone, but she just laughed at it and so I privately messaged her that I would find a lawyer if I had to.

I wish my story ended there.  I went to her site today and found she'd posted how funny it was that I'd contacted her and how my husband had sent her copies of our finances to show he was broke and FILING FOR BANKRUPTCY!!!!

How could I find out like this?!  How could he go this far?  I knew we were deeply in debt because of his addiction, but I had no idea it had gone this far.  I hope he was lying to her.  I hope she was lying.  I don't want to lose my home and I don't know what else to do.

Does anyone know a lawyer who can help me?