I Need A Good Lawyer

I looked through my husband's computer and gotten links to sites he visits.  There was one with a members area he'd paid to have access to, and comparing the number on the site to his cell phone, I was able to establish beyond a doubt that this was one of the women he's been throwing our money at.

Her website is disgusting.  She brags about humiliating men and blackmailing them.  She thinks it's funny when men go bankrupt over her and families have to lose everything.

She has her yahoo IM listed on her website, but I got no response when I tried to IM her.. so I left a message for her on her twitter account and lo and behold, what does she do?  She thinks it's funny and actually taunts me, telling me my husband is a faggot and all sorts of nonsense.

My husband is not gay.  He is a good, Christian man with a sickness.  I don't have any problem with gays.  I think what they do is between them and god, but my husband is not gay.  And we have a beautiful family to prove it.

I had tried asking nicely and telling her we were in debt and to please leave my husband alone, but she just laughed at it and so I privately messaged her that I would find a lawyer if I had to.

I wish my story ended there.  I went to her site today and found she'd posted how funny it was that I'd contacted her and how my husband had sent her copies of our finances to show he was broke and FILING FOR BANKRUPTCY!!!!

How could I find out like this?!  How could he go this far?  I knew we were deeply in debt because of his addiction, but I had no idea it had gone this far.  I hope he was lying to her.  I hope she was lying.  I don't want to lose my home and I don't know what else to do.

Does anyone know a lawyer who can help me?